Stories From the Heart

 
 

life

Marty I

Facing the Fear of Living Fully

He didn’t know when, but at some point the very thing that was most true & real in him became the thing he was most scared to live for.

 
 

love

Teba & Jennifer

Rediscovering Love After Life Falls Apart

The truth was the relationship had fundamentally changed, and though they both felt it, they were scared to face it…scared to face what the change was asking of them.

 

spirit

Ezra J

Losing God to find God

What is so challenging about Divine experience is also what makes it so extraordinary: its Absoluteness.

 
 

death

Trudy L

Letting Go of Dad Through Cancer

It was expected yet devastatingly sudden at the same time–being viscerally grabbed deep in the belly with the realization that her father’s life was coming to an end.

 
 

*Names, genders, and other details have been changed to maintain anonymity.

testimonials

 

If I had the option to select six stars, I would. I cannot say enough about how kind, honest, understanding, and compassionate Justin is as a relationship coach and as a person (not that they are entirely separate). My partner and I started working with Justin about six months ago. My partner was doing individual work with Justin before we began couples work and I recently had my first individual session with him. What I have found extremely valuable are the exercises Justin has walked us through in support of fostering a safe, open space held by love. In most all of the sessions we have had together, I have left feeling closer and more connected to my partner.

Sometimes the "heaviness" ("real" or "fabricated") around hiccups or issues in our relationship are not as "heavy" as they feel and Justin does a beautiful job of being present with us, reminding us why we are doing what we are doing, and reminding us that sometimes things don't have to be as heavy as they might feel. I am grateful and honored to have met Justin through my partner and I feel truly supported in and outside of couples work. I would recommend Justin to anyone seeking support and I knew from the first session (through and around a lot of crying) that I was in the "right" place. I cannot say enough kind things about Justin as a person and as a coach and counselor. I feel very, very lucky.

J.S.
Nashville, TN

It's hard to articulate all of the impacts Justin’s work has had on my life. Overall, I show up more clearly as myself. I am not overwhelmed by my own thoughts or emotions. I can deal with difficult things without shutting down and giving up. I can speak to others about what I need and want. I trust myself and the world a lot more. I am much more comfortable with uncertainty and ambiguity because I realize that my "ok-ness" is not based on something out there, but what's inside of me. I've grown and worked through many challenging moments, uncovering deeper and deeper "layers of the onion," understanding who I am, what I believe, and what I am capable of. All of this has translated into better friendships, a deepening and evolving relationship with my fiance, more confidence at work, and most importantly, a reintroduction to my own creativity, vitality, and authentic contribution to the world.

Justin, as a person, is unlike anyone I have ever met. He meets you exactly where you are - I am endlessly impressed by his ability to intuit and perceive what you're showing up with, so he knows how to meet you. He is attuned to subtle shifts in your energy - even ones you are not aware of. He fully experiences your journey while still standing in his own space on his own journey - he has laughed and cried right along with me many times and has told me that our work together has helped him understand and grow in his own journey, too. He is a real person in there with you, not some analyst across the room unpacking you like a specimen.

Bottom line, I can't say enough about Justin and what he can do for you. If you have too many voices in your head and aren't sure which one is real, or if you feel like there's something just out of your reach that you're capable of, or if you just feel flat and angsty, call Justin. If you want to show up brighter, more vital, and more at ease in the world, call Justin.

D.B.
Oakland, CA

 

Justin is deeply receptive, sharply intuitive, wholly present, and personally invested. His keen insight into a person's innate nature is his subtle power. It allows him to shed light on ingrained layers of self-sabotage and seek ways to gently redirect to a more free, essential self. His sessions are a safe space to hold the full, uninhibited range of a person, including habits of shame, discomfort, or trauma that may otherwise never see the light of day. Justin has an unnerving ability to pick up on nuance, and he can easily adapt from moment to moment, holding you precisely where you need with care. What begins as micro-shifts, over repeated sessions, ripples out into larger patterns of personal change.

I do not see Justin as a person who will impose a "correct" lifestyle, tell you how to achieve something, or give you a rubric to follow. He is not interested in imposing beliefs, nor "good" or "bad" judgments. He's interested in bringing forth what is innate, genuine, and particular to you as the client, and this is how his counseling reaches a core level. It requests skin-grazing honesty and direct intimacy with your defense patterns, your stubborn beliefs, and your genuine wants.

One of the traits I value most in Justin is his honesty. He wholeheartedly believes in his approach and actively practices what he preaches in his life. In this way, he relates to his clients with humanizing sincerity and empathy. He brings himself to the table while patiently challenging you to do the same. His candidness means he will call you out on your BS, holding you accountable for yourself rather than letting you take the easy way out. With kindness, he always encourages a more honest self to come forward.

I.C.
San Francisco, CA

 

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